Priam was the king of Troy in Greek mythology, at the time the Greeks launched an attack against the city, known as the Trojan War. His father was the Trojan king Laomedon.
Priam was the last king of Troy, the ruler who held the city through the ten years of the Trojan War and was killed on the night it fell. He was an old man throughout Homer’s Iliad, father of Hector and Paris, and he is remembered above all for one scene: crossing the battlefield alone to beg Achilles for the body of his son.
Troy had two kings who matter in the myth, and they were father and son. Laomedon ruled first and was killed by Heracles; Priam ruled after him and was the king during the Trojan War, which is who people usually mean by “the king of Troy.”
Podarces, meaning “swift-footed,” was his birth name. He became Priam only after his sister Hesione ransomed him from Heracles, and the new name was understood to mean “the ransomed one,” from the Greek verb priamai, “to buy.”
When he was born, Priam was given the name Podarces. When Heracles sacked Troy and killed his father and brothers, Podarces alone was spared: his sister Hesione ransomed him with a golden veil of her own. After this event, Podarces changed his name to Priam.
Priam was famous for the size of his household. Homer credits him with fifty sons, nineteen of them by Hecuba, and later writers add roughly as many daughters, housed in a palace built with chambers for all of them.
Priam was too old to fight and took no part in the battles. His role in the Iliad is that of a ruler watching a war he cannot control and did not choose, and Homer treats him with unusual sympathy.
Towards the end of the Trojan War, when Achilles had already killed Priam's son, Hector, and had desecrated the body by tying it on his chariot, Priam appeared in front of the Greek hero and pleaded to give him his son's body back, so that it can be buried. Achilles initially refused to give it back; Priam broke in tears and told Achilles to pity him, as he had suffered more than anyone else on the earth. Achilles was eventually persuaded to return the body to the Trojans, and agreed to a nine-day truce between the two sides, so that there could be a proper burial and funeral games.
The scene closes the Iliad and is the reason Priam is remembered at all. He crossed the plain at night, alone but for one herald, entered the tent of the man who had killed his son, and kissed the hands that did it – asking Achilles to think of his own father, Peleus, waiting far away. The two men wept together and then ate a meal, and the poem that opened with rage ends with a funeral.
Following the fall of Troy, Priam was killed by Achilles' son, Neoptolemus, as he was seeking refuge on the altar of Zeus. Neoptolemus caught Priam, brought him to the altar and killed him there.
The gold hoard Heinrich Schliemann unearthed at Troy in 1873 and named after Priam has nothing to do with him. It comes from a layer of the city roughly a thousand years older than any plausible date for the Trojan War.
The war was caused by his son Paris, not by Priam. Ancient sources present the old king as willing to return Helen and end the conflict, overruled by his own family and bound by loyalty to his son.
There is no historical evidence that Priam existed. Troy itself was a real Bronze Age city in northwest Anatolia, destroyed and rebuilt many times, but no inscription or record names any of its kings from the mythological tradition.
See Also: Trojan War, Laomedon, Hesione, Achilles, Hector, Zeus, Hecuba, Paris, Cassandra, Neoptolemus, Helen