Ovid · Heroides Heroides (Epistulae Heroidum)

Ovid, Heroides 16.189–378: Heroides 16: Paris to Helen (2)

Paris, still writing to Helen, belittles Sparta and sets Phrygian ancestry against Menelaus' family. He describes his pain watching Menelaus beside her at table and the signs he has given her. He urges her to use the opportunity of Menelaus' absence, offers to carry her off as Theseus did, and says he can face any war.

Lines 16.189–378 · 2060 words · click a number to copy its link
189Nec mihi fas fuerit Sparten contemnere vestram; 190In qua tu nata es, terra beata mihi est. Parca sed est Sparte, tu cultu divite digna; Ad talem formam non facit iste locus. Hanc faciem largis sine fine paratibus uti Deliciisque decet luxuriare novis. 195Cum videas cultus nostra de gente virorum, Qualem Dardanias credis habere nurus? Da modo te facilem, nec dedignare maritum, Rure Therapnaeo nata puella, Phrygem. Phryx erat et nostro genitus de sanguine, qui nunc 200Cum dis potando nectare miscet aquas. Phryx erat Aurorae coniunx, tamen abstulit illum Extremum noctis quae dea finit iter. Phryx etiam Anchises, volucrum cui mater Amorum Gaudet in Idaeis concubuisse iugis. 205Nec, puto, conlatis forma Menelaus et annis Iudice te nobis anteferendus erit. Non dabimus certe socerum tibi clara fugantem Lumina, qui trepidos a dape vertat equos; Nec Priamo pater est soceri de caede cruentus 210Et qui Myrtoas crimine signat aquas; Nec proavo Stygia nostro captantur in unda Poma, nec in mediis quaeritur umor aquis.

And yet let me not presume to look down upon your Sparta; the land in which you were born is rich for me. But a niggard land is Sparta, and you deserve keeping in wealth; with fairness such as yours this place is not in accord Beauty like yours it befits to enjoy rich adornment without end, and to wanton in ever new delights. When you look on the garb of the men of our race, what garb, think you, must be that of the daughters of Dardanus? Only be compliant, and do not disdain a Phrygian for your lord, you who were born in rural Therapnae. A Phrygian, and born of our blood, was he who now is with the gods, and mingles water with the nectar for their drinking. A Phrygian was Aurora’s mate; yet he was carried away by the goddess who sets the last bound to the advance of night. A Phrygian, too, Anchises, with whom the mother of the winged loves rejoices to consort on Ida’s ridge. Nor do I think that Menelaus, when you compare our beauty and our years, will find higher place in your esteem than I. I shall at least not give you a father-in-law who puts to flight the clear beams of the sun, and turns away from the feast his affrighted steeds; nor has Priam a sire, who is stained with blood from the murder of bis bride’s father, or who marks the Myrtoan waters with his crime; nor does ancestor of mine catch at fruits in the Stygian wave, or seek for water in the midst of waters.

213Quid tamen hoc refert, si te tenet ortus ab illis, Cogitur huic domui Iuppiter esse socer? 215Heu facinus! totis indignus noctibus ille Te tenet, amplexu perfruiturque tuo; At mihi conspiceris posita vix denique mensa, Multaque quae laedant hoc quoque tempus habet. Hostibus eveniant convivia talia nostris, 220Experior posito qualia saepe mero! Paenitet hospitii, cum me spectante lacertos Inponit collo rusticus iste tuo. Rumpor et invidia — quid enim non omnia narrem? — Membra superiecta cum tua veste fovet. 225Oscula cum vero coram non dura daretis, Ante oculos posui pocula sumpta meos; Lumina demitto cum te tenet artius ille, Crescit et invito lentus in ore cibus. Saepe dedi gemitus; et te — lasciva! — notavi 230In gemitu risum non tenuisse meo. Saepe mero volui flammam compescere, at illa Crevit, et ebrietas ignis in igne fuit, Multaque ne videam, versa cervice recumbo; Sed revocas oculos protinus ipsa meos.

Yet what avails me this, if one sprung from them possesses you, and Jove perforce is father-in-law to this house? Ah, crime! Throughout whole nights that unworthy husband possesses you, enjoying your embrace; but I—I look on you only when at last the board is laid, and even this time brings many things that pain. May our enemies have such repasts as often I endure when the wine has been set before us! I regret my being a guest, when before my eyes that rustic lays his arms about your neck. I burst with anger and envy-—for why should I not tell everything?—when he lays his mantle over your limbs to keep you warm. But when you openly give him tender kisses, I take up my goblet and hold it before my eyes; when he holds you closely pressed, I let my gaze fall, and the dull food grows big within my unwilling mouth. Many a time I have let forth groans; and you—ah, mischief that you are!—I have marked you unable to keep from laughing when I groaned. Oft I Would have quenched the flame of love in wine, but it grew instead, and drinking was but fire upon the fire. That I may miss the sight of much, I recline with head turned from you; but you yourself straightway recall my eyes again.

235Quid faciam, dubito; dolor est meus illa videre, Sed dolor a facie maior abesse tua. Qua licet et possum, luctor celare furorem; Sed tamen apparet dissimulatus amor. Nec tibi verba damus; sentis mea vulnera, sentis! 240Atque utinam soli sint ea nota tibi! A, quotiens lacrimis venientibus ora reflexi, Ne causam fletus quaereret ille mei! A, quotiens aliquem narravi potus amorem, Ad vulnus referens singula verba meum, 245Indiciumque mei ficto sub nomine feci! Ille ego, si nescis, verus amator eram. Quin etiam, ut possem verbis petulantius uti, Non semel ebrietas est simulata mihi.

What I shall do, I know not; I suffer when I look upon these things, but I suffer more when I lack the sight of your face. In whatever way I am allowed and have the power, I struggle to conceal my madness; but none the less the love I cover up appears. And I am not deceiving you; you are aware what wounds are mine—you are aware! And would that they were known to you alone! Ah, how often at the coming of my tears I have turned away my face, lest that man should ask the reasons why I wept! Ah, how often, when in wine, I have told the tale of some amour, speaking straight to your face each single word, and have given you hint of myself under the made-up name! I was the real lover—if you do not know. Nay, indeed, that I might be able to use more froward speech, not once alone have I feigned I was in wine.

249Prodita sunt, memini, tunica tua pectora laxa 250Atque oculis aditum nuda dedere meis — Pectora vel puris nivibus vel lacte tuamve Complexo matrem candidiora Iove. Dum stupeo visis — nam pocula forte tenebam — Tortilis a digitis excidit ansa meis. 255Oscula si natae dederas, ego protinus illa Hermiones tenero laetus ab ore tuli. Et modo cantabam veteres resupinus amores, Et modo per nutum signa tegenda dabam. Et comitum primas, Clymenen Aethramque, tuarum 260Ausus sum blandis nuper adire sonis, Quae mihi non aliud, quam formidare, locutae Orantis medias deseruere preces.

Your bosom once, I remember, was betrayed by your robe; it was loose, and left your charms bare to my gaze—breasts whiter than pure snows, or milk, or Jove when he embraced your mother. While I sat in ecstasy at the sight—I chanced to have my goblet in hand—the twisted handle fell from my fingers. If you had bestowed kisses on your child Hermione, I forthwith snatched them with joy from her tender lips. And now I would sing of old amours, lying careless on my back; and again I would nod, making signs I should have kept hid. The first of your companions, Clymene and Aethra, I lately ventured to approach with flattering words; who said naught else than that they were afraid, and left me in the midst of my entreaties.

263Di facerent, pretium magni certaminis esses, Teque suo posset victor habere toro! — 265Ut tulit Hippomenes Schoeneida praemia cursus, Venit ut in Phrygios Hippodamia sinus, Ut ferus Alcides Acheloia cornua fregit, Dum petit amplexus, Deianira, tuos. Nostra per has leges audacia fortiter isset, 270Teque mei scires esse laboris opus. Nunc mihi nil superest nisi te, formosa, precari, Amplectique tuos, si patiare, pedes. O decus, o praesens geminorum gloria fratrum, O Iove digna viro, ni Iove nata fores, 275Aut ego Sigeos repetam te coniuge portus, Aut hic Taenaria contegar exul humo! Non mea sunt summa leviter destricta sagitta Pectora; descendit vulnus ad ossa meum! Hoc mihi — nam repeto — fore, ut a caeleste sagitta 280Figar, erat verax vaticinata soror. Parce datum fatis, Helene, contemnere amorem — Sic habeas faciles in tua vota deos!

Ah, might the gods make you the prize in a mighty contest, and let the victor have you for his couch!—as Hippomenes bore off, the prize of his running, Schoeneus’ daughter, as Hippodamia came to Phrygian embrace, as fierce Hercules broke the horns of the Achelous while aspiring to thy embraces, Deianira. My daring would have boldly made its way in the face of conditions such as these, and you would know well how to be the object of my toils. Now nothing is left me but to entreat you, beauteous one, and to embrace your feet, so you suffer it. O honour, O present glory of the twin brethren, O worthy of Jove to husband were you not the child of Jove—either I shall return to the haven of Sigeum with you as my bride, or here, an exile, be covered with Taenarian earth! It is not slightly that my breast has been pierced, only by the arrow’s point; my wound is deep—to the very bones! This—for I recall it—was what my truthful sister prophesied—that I should be transfixed by a heavenly dart. Do not, O Helen, despise a love ordained by fate—so may you find the gods gracious to your prayers!

283Multa quidem subeunt; sed coram ut plura loquamur, Excipe me lecto nocte silente tuo. 285An pudet et metuis Venerem temerare maritam Castaque legitimi fallere iura tori? A, nimium simplex Helene, ne rustica dicam, Hanc faciem culpa posse carere putas? Aut faciem mutes aut sis non dura, necesse est; 290Lis est cum forma magna pudicitiae. Iuppiter his gaudet, gaudet Venus aurea furtis; Haec tibi nempe patrem furta dedere Iovem. Vix fieri, si sunt vires in semine morum, Et Iovis et Ledae filia casta potest. 295Casta tamen tum sis, cum te mea Troia tenebit, Et tua sim, quaeso, crimina solus ego. Nunc ea peccemus quae corriget hora iugalis, Si modo promisit non mihi vana Venus!

Many things indeed come to my mind; but, that we may say more face to face, welcome me to your couch in the silent night. Or do you feel shame and fear to violate your wedded love, and to be false to the chaste bonds of a lawful bed? Ah, too simple—nay, too rustic—Helen! do you think that beauty of yours can be free from fault? Either you must change your beauty, or you must needs not be hard; fairness and modesty are mightily at strife. Jove’s delight, and the delight of Venus, are in stealthy sins like these; such stealthy sins, indeed, gave you Jove for sire. If power over character be in the seed, it scarce can be that you, the child of Jove and Leda, will remain chaste. Be chaste, nevertheless—but when my Troy shall hold you; and let your guilt, I beg, be with me alone. Let our sin now be one the hour of marriage will correct—if only what Venus promised me is not in vain

299Ipse tibi hoc suadet rebus, non voce, maritus, 300Neve sui furtis hospitis obstet, abest. Non habuit tempus, quo Cresia regna videret, Aptius — o mira calliditate virum! 'Res, et ut Idaei mando tibi,' dixit iturus, 'Curam pro nobis hospitis, uxor, agas.' 305Neclegis absentis, testor, mandata mariti! Cura tibi non est hospitis ulla tui. Huncine tu speras, hominem sine pectore, dotes Posse satis formae, Tyndari, nosse tuae? Falleris — ignorat; nec, si bona magna putaret, 310Quae tenet, externo crederet illa viro. Ut te nec mea vox nec te meus incitet ardor, Cogimur ipsius commoditate frui — Aut erimus stulti, sic ut superemus et ipsum, Si tam securum tempus abibit iners. 315Paene suis ad te manibus deducit amantem; Utere mandantis simplicitate viri!

But even your husband presses you on to this—by deed, if not by word. That his guest may find no bar to theft, he absents himself. He could find no time more suited for him to see the realms of Crete—O husband marvellously shrewd! “I enjoin upon you in my stead the care of my affairs, and of our guest from Ida,” he said, making ready to depart. I call you to witness; you neglect the injunction of your absent lord; you are not caring for your guest at all. Do you hope, Tyndaris, that so senseless a man as this can know well the riches of your beauty? You are deceived—he does not know; if he thought great the possessions that he holds, he would not entrust them to an outlander. Though neither my words should move you, nor my ardour, I am driven to take the advantage he himself gives—or I shall be foolish, even to surpassing him, if I let so safe a time go idly by. Almost with his own hands he has brought your lover to you; profit by the behests of your artless lord!

317Sola iaces viduo tam longa nocte cubili; In viduo iaceo solus et ipse toro. Te mihi meque tibi communia gaudia iungant; 320Candidior medio nox erit illa die. Tunc ego iurabo quaevis tibi numina meque Adstringam verbis in sacra vestra meis; Tunc ego, si non est fallax fiducia nostri, Efficiam praesens, ut mea regna petas. 325Si pudet et metuis ne me videare secuta, Ipse reus sine te criminis huius ero; Nam sequar Aegidae factum fratrumque tuorum. Exemplo tangi non propiore potes. Te rapuit Theseus, geminas Leucippidas illi; 330Quartus in exemplis adnumerabor ego. Troica classis adest armis instructa virisque; Iam facient celeres remus et aura vias. Ibis Dardanias ingens regina per urbes, Teque novam credet vulgus adesse deam, 335Quaque feres gressus, adolebunt cinnama flammae, Caesaque sanguineam victima planget humum. Dona pater fratresque et cum genetrice sorores Iliadesque omnes totaque Troia dabit. Ei mihi! pars a me vix dicitur ulla futuri. 340Plura feres, quam quae littera nostra refert.

You lie alone through the long night in a companionless couch; in a companionless bed I, too, lie alone. Let mutual delights join you to me, and me to you; brighter than mid of clay will that night be. Then I will swear to you by whatever gods you choose, and bind myself by my oath to observe the rites of your choice; then, if confidence does not beguile me, with a plea in person I will make you wish to seek my realms. If you feel shame and fear lest you seem to have followed me, I myself will meet this charge without you; for I will imitate the deed of Aegeus’ son and of your brothers. You can be touched by no examples nearer than these. Theseus stole you away, and they the twin daughters of Leucippus; I shall be counted fourth among such examples. The Trojan fleet is ready, equipped with arms and men; soon oar and breeze will make swift our way. Like a great queen you will make your progress through the Dardanian towns, and the common crowd will think a new goddess come to earth; wherever you advance your steps, flames will consume the cinnamon, and the slain victim will strike the bloody earth. My father and my brothers and my sisters, with their mother, and all the daughters of Ilion, and Troy entire, will bring you gifts. Ah me! I am telling you scarce any part of what will be. You will receive more than my letter tells.

341Nec tu rapta time, ne nos fera bella sequantur, Concitet et vires Graecia magna suas. Tot prius abductis ecqua est repetita per arma? Crede mihi, vanos res habet ista metus. 345Nomine ceperunt Aquilonis Erechthida Thraces, Et tuta a bello Bistonis ora fuit; Phasida puppe nova vexit Pagasaeus Iason, Laesa neque est Colcha Thessala terra manu. Te quoque qui rapuit, rapuit Minoida Theseus; 350Nulla tamen Minos Cretas ad arma vocat. Terror in his ipso maior solet esse periclo, Quaeque timere licet, pertimuisse pudet.

And do not fear lest, if you are stolen away. fierce wars will follow after us, and mighty Greece will rouse her strength. Of so many who have been taken away before, tell me, has any one ever been sought back by arms? Believe me, that fear of yours is vain. In the name of Aquilo the Thracians took captive Erechtheus’ child, and the Bistonian shore was safe from war; Pegasaean Jason in his new craft carried away the Phasian maid, and the land of Thessaly was never harmed by Colchian band. Theseus, too, he who stole you, stole Minos’ daughter; yet Minos called the Cretans ne’er to arms. The terror in things like these is wont to be greater than the danger itself, and where ’tis our humour to fear, we shame to have feared too much.

353Finge tamen, si vis, ingens consurgere bellum — Et mihi sunt vires, et mea tela nocent. 355Nec minor est Asiae quam vestrae copia terrae; Illa viris dives, dives abundat equis. Nec plus Atrides animi Menelaus habebit Quam Paris aut armis anteferendus erit. Paene puer caesis abducta armenta recepi, 360Hostibus et causam nominis inde tuli; Paene puer iuvenes vario certamine vici, In quibus Ilioneus Deiphobusque fuit; Neve putes, non me nisi comminus esse timendum, Figitur in iusso nostra sagitta loco. 365Num potes haec illi primae dare facta iuventae? Instruere Atriden num potes arte mea? Omnia si dederis, numquid dabis Hectora fratrem? Unus is innumeri militis instar erit! Quid valeam nescis, et te mea robora fallunt; 370Ignoras, cui sis nupta futura viro.

Imagine none the less, if you wish, that a great war is set on foot—I, too, have power, and my weapons, too, are deadly. Nor is the resource of Asia less than that of your land; in men is that country rich, and richly abounds in horses. Nor will Menelaus, Atreus’ son, have spirit more than Paris, or be esteemed before him in arms. While yet almost a child, I slew the enemy and got back our herds, and from the exploit received the name I bear; while yet almost a child, I overcame young men in varied contest, and among them Ilioneus and Deiphobus; and, lest you think me not to be feared but in the thick of the fight, my arrow is fixed in any spot you choose. Can you bespeak for him such deeds of first young manhood? can you claim for the son of Atreus skill like mine? If you should claim for him everything, could you give him Hector for a brother? He alone will have the might of unnumbered warriors! My powers you do not know, and my prowess you have never seen. You do not know the man whose bride you are to be.

371Aut igitur nullo belli repetere tumultu, Aut cedent Marti Dorica castra meo. Nec tamen indigner pro tanta sumere ferrum Coniuge. certamen praemia magna movent. 375Tu quoque, si de te totus contenderit orbis, Nomen ab aeterna posteritate feres Spe modo non timida dis hinc egressa secundis; Exige cum plena munera pacta fide.

Either, then, you will be demanded back with no tumult of war, or the Doric camp will yield to my soldiery. Nor yet would I disdain to take up arms for such a bride. Great prizes stir great strife. And you, besides, if the whole world shall contend for you, will attain to fame among men forever more! Only, take hope, cast off your fears, and leave this place, for the gods are with us; exact with full confidence the promised boon.

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English translation by Grant Showerman (1914). Original text: Rudolf Ehwald (ed.), P. Ovidius Naso, vol. 1, Leipzig: Teubner, 1907 (Latin text as digitised by Perseus); English: Grant Showerman, Ovid: Heroides and Amores, Loeb Classical Library, London: Heinemann; New York: Macmillan, 1914.

Greek text and translation from the Perseus Digital Library, Tufts University, CC BY-SA 4.0 (Perseus Digital Library, Latin text); translation public domain (OCR from the Internet Archive scan). Introductions, summaries and notes © GreekMythology.com.